Change, COURAGE and Abuse.

Perhaps people do change after all.

Courage is perhaps something that I lack and something you've attained =) Way to go, my dear friend! Things may look gloomy at the moment, but you've taken the huge step and that will certainly change your life for the better in the long run. Don't despair coz you've done the right thing for yourself! =) It'll reflect anytime later, which may or may not be any time soon. We'll just have to await patiently for the right thing to happen with the right person at the right time! The wait may be excruciating, but it'll come and you'll be better off than you were with somebody not worth your love. I salute your bravery! =)

I wish she could just do the same too...
Girl, have the COURAGE, take that right step and change your seemingly-nice-but-sorry life for the better!

Coz girls only deserve the BEST! =) Don't be cruel to yourself just because you can't bear to leave a relationship you have invested so much love, time and effort in. Be smart and a little more rational about it; think about the much higher opportunity cost if you only break (or divorce) many years later when the BIG problem surfaces. And the BIG problem is already lurking around in the shadows of your relationship now, but you refuse to face it or think (or hope to bits) that he will change for you.

Quoted from many reliable male sources:
The biggest mistake a girl makes is to assume that a guy will ever change for her.

Don't continue making that mistake. He's never going to change, now, and even more not so after marriage. The typical guy cherishes his wife less than his girlfriend, coz he knows too well the last thing a girl wants is a divorce no matter how bad the relationship turns out to be. You may feel your guy is not the typical guy, but realistically, there are no atypical guys.

I may be referring to one or more girlfriends out there. Don't come and ask me if i'm referring to you coz that's a sensitive question i'll never ever answer.

Emotional abuse includes being afraid of your partner, your partner subjecting you to public humiliation (i.e. saying you are fat or ugly, scolding you stupid, telling you that you're better off dead, shouting at you, etc...) infront of anybody (friends, family, strangers), or for that matter of fact, saying anything that puts you off, makes you upset, demoralised, or feel like dying. He'll illtreat you, and after that say sorry, and do and say all sorts of nice things to make up for it. But the illtreatment will start all over again, and the apologies and niceties, and the vicious cycle conitnues til you eventually break one day.

Go ahead, take out all of your courage, and step out of your stupidity now!


(P.S. That was a spur of a moment entry dedicated to all girls coz I've decided that I'm seeing too much of abuse recently suffered by girls blinded by love! It was NOT government or date rape propaganda -_-''')